In our culture, we are brainwashed to think women like nice guys. Your parents probably taught you to always compliment women, always pay for their meals, and always listen to a girl yap on and on. Society teach us to respond to a woman's carping with, "Yes, dear."
I'm about to barf.
This may work if you happen to be a woman's type. But if you're not, a woman will inevitably put you in "friend zone."
Even if this does work at first, overtime a woman's attraction towards will abate.
That's because when a man cedes a woman's every whim, she doesn't think he's nice and wonderful. Instead, she perceives him as a groveling gimp.
Does this mean chivalry is dead? Does it mean you should never open doors for women? No. Not at all.
You should do these things - especially if it's your style. But add some cockiness to it.
Here's an example. Let's say a woman asks you to get her an apple martini. Don't get her an apple martini. Instead, maybe get her a vodka tonic. Another cocky thing to do is this: make her tell you a joke or a story before getting her a drink.
Here's your homework: look back over the last year and think of all the situations you've been in where you were acting like a "nice guy." I'm willing to bet, nine out of ten times it killed attraction, right?
So as you think about each of these times, write down something cocky you could have done instead of acting like a "nice guy."
The next time you're in these situations, you won't fall into "nice guy" mode. Instead, you'll have a cocky response. As a result, women will be brimming with attraction for you.
The other thing you should do is pay attention to cocky guys. These guys may seem mean but I'm willing to bet they get a lot of girls. You can learn a lot from them.
I'm about to barf.
This may work if you happen to be a woman's type. But if you're not, a woman will inevitably put you in "friend zone."
Even if this does work at first, overtime a woman's attraction towards will abate.
That's because when a man cedes a woman's every whim, she doesn't think he's nice and wonderful. Instead, she perceives him as a groveling gimp.
Does this mean chivalry is dead? Does it mean you should never open doors for women? No. Not at all.
You should do these things - especially if it's your style. But add some cockiness to it.
Here's an example. Let's say a woman asks you to get her an apple martini. Don't get her an apple martini. Instead, maybe get her a vodka tonic. Another cocky thing to do is this: make her tell you a joke or a story before getting her a drink.
Here's your homework: look back over the last year and think of all the situations you've been in where you were acting like a "nice guy." I'm willing to bet, nine out of ten times it killed attraction, right?
So as you think about each of these times, write down something cocky you could have done instead of acting like a "nice guy."
The next time you're in these situations, you won't fall into "nice guy" mode. Instead, you'll have a cocky response. As a result, women will be brimming with attraction for you.
The other thing you should do is pay attention to cocky guys. These guys may seem mean but I'm willing to bet they get a lot of girls. You can learn a lot from them.
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